What if the path that feels most true is the one that looks the least secure? In this Manaʻo Bomb, Kelia Moniz’s journey shows how choosing alignment over approval can shape a life that’s both resilient and deeply fulfilling. From walking away from expected surf careers to leaving long-held sponsorships and building something entirely her own, her story is for anyone standing at a crossroads and learning that the bravest paths rarely come with guarantees, only honesty.

People will tell you what’s realistic. They’ll size you up, dismiss your dreams, and tell you to aim lower. Lauren didn’t listen—and she made it to the Olympics. Maybe you don’t need to either.

Born into a legendary surfing family, Kelia Moniz seemed destined to follow a specific path. Her dad, Tony Moniz, was a professional surfer and one of Hawai‘i’s pioneers in big-wave riding. Surfing wasn’t just a sport in their household, but a way of life.